A client of mine went to a wedding recently in the Virgin Islands. Turns out the couple had met at a New Year’s Eve party! Yes, people will meet tonight all over the WORLD at galas, casino nights, parties and church services. It can happen for you, if you are prepared and ready!!!
Here are some tips for you:
1 – Pick the right party. Know what type of men you want to meet and go where they are going to go. Be careful, though, about other people’s perceptions of parties. Someone who didn’t meet anyone at last year’s party may complain about it being lame or full of old dudes but that may be because they focused on only the negatives. Another person at the same party may have met guys their age and had a wonderful time.
That brings me to my next point:
2 – Put out positive energy no matter WHERE you go! Even if it is true that the clientele where you end up is older that you are interested in, look for the younger people. Don’t give up and sulk in a seat somewhere. Younger men usually arrive closer to midnight, so dance the night away happily and be found enjoying yourself when they arrive, not looking bored or sulking in a corner. Be friendly with all the men, even the older ones! Keep smiling.
3 – Preparation – how you look and feel is going to play a huge part in the night. When you get glamourous and love your dress, you walk taller, smile brighter and the endorphins are pumping. You want to dance and have a great time. If you are self-conscious about your dress or look or don’t feel you look your best, your whole night will be different.
4 – Talk to him! There will be lots of men hanging around, dancing or eating. Here are some conversation starters you can use if you are not great with flirting naturally (come to one of my Flirt Nights to get in the practice that you need!):
“How was your 2014?”
“What was the most exciting thing that happened to you this year?”
“What did you do last New Year’s Eve?”
“What are you plans for 2015?”
“What is the one thing that you have to do this year?”
It’s New Year’s Eve. It is quite easy to talk about how the year was and all the things you want to do in the future. No need for the regular boring small talk. Keep the conversation centered around this special time.
5 – Ask Him to Dance – it is perfectly OK to pick out a guy who is alone or standing with a group of guys and single him out. “Hey, want to dance?” Don’t be afraid of rejection. If he says no, on to the next one! Maybe he can’t dance or maybe he has a girlfriend. Nothing lost, but you were bold and took the initiative! And if he says yes, great! Just dance and let him do the talking. You don’t need to do anything else but dance. If he is interested, he will do the rest.
Wherever you are going tonight to celebrate, have FUN! Dance with five guys, even if you have to ask them. Talk to at least one guy in depth about his year and future plans for the New Year.
Decide for yourself that this coming year will be different for your love life and set out to make it happen!
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